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Preparing a speech can be like sculpting. You keep removing the excess clay until you have your work of art. If you want to start your presentation with a bang instead of a bust avoid these ten mistakes. These tips will show you how not to start your speech.
1. You like me, you really like me
Sally Fields did this when she accepted her academy award. Her gushing outburst was mocked because it seemed unprofessional. We all want to be liked but Sally pushed our puke button with her act. If they are giving you the award don't insult them by pretending that you don't deserve it.
2. Tell a joke
If you have an ancient book on public speaking that tells you to start with a joke - burn it and purge anything you read from your memory. That is a terrible way to start your speech. It's difficult to tell a joke well in front of an audience. It usually fails - a bad way to start your speech. Don't tell jokes.
3. How is everybody today?
You have probably seen the "motivational speaker" wannabe start his presentation with this question. Then he repeats the question only louder as if that means your first response was too weak. It looks, sounds and feels phony and it ticks people off - a very bad way to start your presentation.
4. I don't know why I have been asked to speak
Imagine the thoughts that go through the minds of your audience when you start with this phrase. If you don't know - why are you speaking? This is going to be a dreadful presentation. Why did I attend? How do I escape?
5. I'm really nervous
It's okay to admit imperfection. But don't tell your audience that you are a lousy presenter, this is your first time or that you are very nervous. That conveys lack of confidence. Often they can't tell the state of your nerves so keep it to yourself. If you are a lousy presenter they will decide on their own soon enough. Don't foretell your own presentation disaster.
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